生活中虚假的姐妹情数不胜数，能有两三个知己相伴实属一件幸事~

最近，BuzzFeed上总结了一波好朋友之间的相处模式，你和你的好友平时是不是也这样既互怼又互相照顾呢？真的是非常有爱了~

当你不知道去干啥，又叫了同样无所事事的好友想去做点有意思的事，结果你们一起无所事事......

当你告诉好友“快看你后面的那个人，动作别太明显”时......

和普通朋友say bye VS 和好友say bye

闺蜜：我找不到他的社交账号，我只知道他的名字

我：立马化身为联邦调查局探员

你和好友视频时

当你和好友知道什么了不得的秘密的时候

我：我们一起减肥吧~

闺蜜：好！

五分钟后......

当你好友不回复你时

“友尽！直到另行通知”

（好友正在打字......）

当我好友喝高了要打电话给他前任时

当我跟别人形容我闺蜜时：

才华横溢！聪明绝顶！无与伦比！美若天仙！

当你听到好友在妄自菲薄时

你：你是全世界最完美的人！

当有人跟你说，你闺蜜也和她们是好闺蜜时

你可以把好友的肚子当作枕头

当我和塑料姐妹花互怼互撕时VS

当我和好友互怼互撕时

六十年后，我和我最好的朋友的样子

怎么样？这些画面像不像你和好友在一起时的样子？

微博网友纷纷表示简直和自己与闺蜜的日常一毛一样~

还有一些网友表示，自己完全就没有可以@的人！

我也是real心疼了......

别着急，真正的友谊可以慢慢寻找，虚假的情谊则需要提防。那么，如何辨别真友情和塑料姐妹情呢？

The biggest sign that you have a fake friend is that your friendship is extremely conditional. We all have normal boundaries that we don't want people to cross, but conditions are totally different.→塑料友谊的最大标志是，这段友情是有条件的。我们每个人都有底线，我们都不希望别人触及，但条件则不同。

Boundaries are healthy and they're about the kind of respect a person thinks they deserve. For instance, if you cross a boundary by punching your friend in the face, it's perfectly normal that they would want to stop being friends with you.→有底线是好的，说明这个人需要被尊重，举个例子，如果你触及了他人的底线，那个人和你绝交是很正常的。

Conditions, on the other hand, are all about "standards" that they expect you to adhere to, even if it has nothing to do with them. For example, if someone won't be your friend unless you're wealthy, that's a condition.→条件则不同，它们是塑料姐妹花希望你达到的标准，即使这和她们没有一点关系，再举个例子，你穷的时候她不和你交朋友，有钱了她和你做朋友了，财富就是她的条件。

A conditional friendship is when your friend expects you to give them certain things, act a certain way, dress in certain clothes, make a certain amount of money, or follow some other superficial standard before they will associate with you. It has nothing to do with your character and everything to do with appearances.→虚假的朋友会期望你给他们想要的东西、用他们喜欢的方式相处、穿指定的衣服、赚足够多的钱，或者达到其他一些很肤浅的标准，然后他们才会与你交往。这和你的性格无关，只与你的外在有关。

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Another obvious sign of a fake friend is if the person treats you differently depending on who is around.→塑料友谊的另一个标志是，你那位“朋友”对待你的方式取决于谁在你们身边。

Are they nice to you when you're alone, but give you the cold shoulder when others are around? Do they tell you that they like you in private, but keep you at arm's length in public? Even worse, is your friendship some kind of secret?→他们会在你一个人的时候对你很好，但在别人面前对你很冷淡吗？他们会告诉你，他们私下可以和你很亲密，但在公众面前却和你保持适当距离吗？更糟糕的是，你和他的友谊是个秘密吗？

If so, not only is this extremely immature, but they're definitely not a real friend. Real friends are not ashamed of treating people with kindness, and they certainly won't be afraid to admit that they get along with you.

→如果是这样，这不仅仅是不成熟的表现，他们一定不是你的真朋友。真正的朋友不会因为善待别人而感到羞耻，他们当然不会害怕承认你是他们的好朋友。

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除此之外还有：

They speak poorly of you when you're not around.

当你不在场时，他们会说你坏话。

When you have a disagreement, they stop talking to you.

当你不赞同他们时，他们就不再理你了。

They disappear when someone "More Interesting" shows up.

当别的“更有趣的”人出现时，他们就从你身边消失了。

They never try to help you achieve your goals.

他们不会帮你实现目标。

They always bring you gown.

他们总让你失望。

They never pay attention to what you're saying.

他们不会专心听你在讲什么。

A fake friend sees your needs and wants as a nuisance.

虚假的朋友会不屑于你追求的东西。

They don't accept you for who you are.

他们不会接受真实的你。

哎，说多了都是泪......咱们来看看别人家的友谊是怎样的？

美国有一对令人羡慕的高龄姐妹花，104岁的Genevieve Musci 和99岁的Arlene Cody Bashnett，在社交媒体上，粉丝们都爱叫她们为Gramma and Ginga (G&G，奶奶和银河)，她们的粉丝已经超过了10万人。

活泼可爱，风趣幽默的她们让我们知道，我怼你，但我最爱你。